Ep. 025 : Breakups & Suicide

Breaking up STINKS!  It’s hard even under the best of circumstances.  After a breakup, people often describe feelings of depression, anxiety, and isolation.  The Centers for Disease Control reports that after breakups people are also more likely to become suicidal.  We know that feelings of isolation, hopelessness, and burdensomeness are related to suicidal thoughts.  After a breakup, it’s pretty normal to feel many of those emotions, which is why breakups can become a trigger for suicide.  

Thoughts of suicide post-breakup are especially common when the individual lacks other meaningful relationships.  The end of the relationship may disconnect someone from the only person they felt like they could confide in.  What are they supposed to do now?  Generally speaking, men are less likely to have as many strong emotional connections as women.  Men are also more likely to use a highly lethal means when attempting suicide.  For more on this check out this week’s blog, “Does Gender Have Anything to Do with Suicide Post-Breakup?”

In This Episode We'll Discuss

  • Dr. Thomas Joiner’s theory on suicide
  • Heartbreak may cause the sensation of physical pain which may lower resistance to suicide 
  • How tunnel vision influences suicide attempts
  • Why anger can be a part of suicidal thoughts 

Resources for this Episode

Causes of suicide

https://www.cdc.gov/vitalsigns/pdf/vs-0618-suicide-H.pdf

 

Relationship problems and suicide

http://www.supportiverelationships.org/home/relationship-problems-are-a-leading-cause-for-suicide/

 

Importance of relationships for health

http://psych415.class.uic.edu/Readings/House,%20Social%20relationships-Health,%20Science,%201988.pdf

 

Gender, divorce and suicide

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/13811110701801044

 

Relationship breakups and men

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1557988314546395

 

Marital status change and suicide

https://econtent.hogrefe.com/doi/abs/10.1027/0227-5910/a000054?journalCode=cri

 

Recency of divorce and suicide

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0192513X13494824

 

Emotional intimacy in gay and lesbian couples

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4370347/

 

Men and divorce

https://psychotherapy.psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.psychotherapy.2004.58.2.174

 

https://www.amazon.com/Guys-Only-Guide-Getting-Divorce-Relationships-ebook/dp/B010G63BT4#:~:text=A%20man’s%20guide%20to%20recovering%20from%20divorce%20and%20starting%20a%20new%20life.&text=Written%20by%20two%20psychologists%20who,fears%2C%20and%20start%20new%20relationships.